Thanks… I used your advise and wanted you to know first. I got to try anal with my wife. I couldn’t have done it without you. I licked that twat and got her ass really wet then I banged her ass. She is like a nympho now. She is enjoying assplay . Now she is wanting to have s threesome. Should I get a male or female for second partner? I want another woman with us but she wants another cock. Not sure if I would be comfortable with another male, what if he is more endowed I may feel inadequate? Any suggestions?
So happy to hear my advice got your throbbing member nice and deep inside your wife’s special backdoor…. :) A threesome is always a very interesting journey, and furthermore for a married couple. While I know of plenty of marriages where other sex partners are a part of it. It’s not something I would just dive into, you probably need to evaluate your relationship and make sure it is strong enough to eliminate the worry of jealousy, and/or the probability that you will both enjoy the company of another in the bed. I asked my friend who has threesomes often in her marriage and she said it’s imperative, you introduce both women and men, it’s only fair, that’s step one to make sure no one is feeling left out. You get a new pussy to play with, she had better get new cock to feel inside her! Both have to make sure they are mentally strong enough to keep sex no matter how good, and the relationship separate. Finally, in my experience, a new dick always feels interesting, and usually really good, I’m going to assume this is the same for a new pussy. I hope to indulge in threesomes and/or swinging when I am married. I see too many men and even women become bored with married sex. I’ve had sex with married men before, and let me tell you, they have a pent up aggression that makes sex un-be-lievable…. it actually became very addictive! And they notes they sent after that it reinvigorated their sex life with their wife, was actually very exciting! I personally think this is a fun, interesting experience that could be a marriage tool! But use caution, if you or your wife aren’t ready, divorce has happened… good luck love to hear what happens, and some pics… ;)
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January 31, 2014 at 11:55 AM
How are we just now discussing this topic LOL
So Jenny is completely right, you really need to evaluate your relationship before venturing down this road. How comfortable are you with each other, do either of you have any jealousy issues, etc.
I think it’s easier to start with couples swapping, it doesn’t feel as awkward as bringing just a third person into the bedroom. When choosing a couple make sure it’s a couple you know but you’re not best friends with, no co-workers and no neighbors (this way if things go bad you can severe the relationship and it’s no big deal). I recommend dinner & drinks followed by some kind of activity where you can swap partners like pool, mini golf, bowling something where you can see if the chemistry is there between each of the partners (also gives opportunity for a little sexual innuendo). At the end of the night if all goes well you can invite them over for drinks or if your not feeling it just say “well I think were gonna call it a night, we’ll have to do this again sometime”
If you don’t have the luxury of having a couple then from a woman’s perspective I would start with bringing another woman into the bedroom first. It’s just easier to accept, if you bring another guy in for the first time your wife is going to worry about how you feel, if she’s going too far, not far enough and so on. Likewise, you might start to get jealous when you see this or if she does things you weren’t expecting. But if you bring a woman in first then the girls will probably play together a little then you’ll get your threesome, everyone has a good time and it’s just a little more “normal” feeling for a 2 girl threesome than a 2 guy threesome.
Then when it’s time to have another guy your wife is going to feel more comfortable because you already got your threesome and now it’s her turn. This wont be brand new to you and you will remember in the back of your mind that even after the 2 girl threesome you still loved your wife and enjoyed sex with her and your wife will feel the same way after her threesome. I will go ahead and tell you this, most guys that are willing to go home with a couple are usually pretty well endowed and are pretty good in bed. That combined with your wife having sex with someone for the first time, she is probably going to have a really good time, make some noises you’re not used to and maybe even do some things she doesn’t usually do. Be ready for this and don’t try to think of it as a competition but rather you providing an incredible experience for her. And if she does something for him that she doesn’t usually do for you, I guarantee she will start doing it.
A couple of tips:
You can’t do anything about your size but you can do something about your endurance. You don’t want to finish in 2 minutes and 10 minutes later your still watching some guy fucking the shit out of your wife. If you need to, jack-off before hand, hell jack off a couple of times, whatever it takes to make you last.
Discuss the details with your wife ahead of time. It may not seem very romantic but you need to have some ground rules. Is the guy going to cum in her, on her or condom only. Anal or not. Girl on girl or not. Full swap (sex) or soft (oral/hand play)
Have a safe word. Something you can say if you start to feel uncomfortable with the situation.
Like Jenny said make sure your ready but if you are it can be an amazing part of your sex life. Good luck & keep us updated ;-)
January 31, 2014 at 1:57 PM
Steph is a rockstar!
February 1, 2014 at 1:48 AM
She is a rockstar!!! Stephanie you sound pretty experienced in this life style, I’ve got to ask when you guys play with others where do you let the other guy cum?
February 1, 2014 at 9:46 AM
Thanks Jenny, yeah Zach you could say I have a little experience ;-)
We have a very clean couple that we play with fairly regularly and when were playing with them he pretty much cums wherever the mood strikes. I have no problem with him cumming inside me or on me. Now if it’s someone new that were bringing into the bedroom for like a one time thing then condom all the way.
I love questions feel free to ask ;-)
February 1, 2014 at 11:38 AM
When you and your boyfriend first started playing around was there any specific act that took him longer to get used to than others.
February 2, 2014 at 10:17 AM
We started kinda slow and worked into it. Honestly, I was thinking the first time a guy fucked me and came inside of me would have been hard for him to handle if anything but it wasn’t. The guy of the couple we play with can sometimes be a little aggressive, well maybe dominant is a better word, but I like that in a guy because I’m usually the dominant one. Anyway so one day I guess he was really into it or something and I was on my knees giving him a blow job, at the same time his wife was giving my bf a blow job, and he had me by my hair pulling on it a little and he was being a little rough (not in a way that I didn’t enjoy) and at some point he told me to lick his balls which I did then he started calling me a whore and other things and eventually he came on my face which I’m not usually a big fan of but he caught me in the right mood.
So afterwards my bf and I talked about it and he said he thought it was really hot but almost felt like he wasn’t standing up for me by not saying something about how rough he was being. But I promised him that I loved every minute of it and that if something was ever happening that I wasn’t enjoying I would let him know. Later on we all talked about it and had a good laugh. But we’ve been doing it for awhile now and as long as there is open communication it’s not a problem.
February 6, 2014 at 9:54 AM
The idea is hot but I’m pretty sure my boyfriend would flip his shit if he saw me licking another guy’s balls while he called me a whore. LOL!
February 6, 2014 at 10:28 AM
HaHaHa!! It’s not for everyone but I swear you would love it if you could talk him into it.
February 6, 2014 at 11:54 AM
Is it just the calling you a whore that would upset him ;) I told my wife she could suck off a guy while I fucked her from behind but she wouldn’t go for it
February 4, 2014 at 11:23 AM
Hey Steph I’m up under the joystick guy. Can’t wait to hear what you think of me so would you let me be the other guyin one of your threesomes?
February 4, 2014 at 1:10 PM
Steph you keep getting hotter and hotter. Your descriptions put quite the pictures in my head. When are we going to get to see some more of how hot you are? Love that ass ;)
February 7, 2014 at 12:40 PM
Jenny and Stephanie, thanks for the constant good insight and advice. My wife and I are laying out our expectations, rules, etc for a couple swap or threesome, but likely starting with another couple. I’m sure this is a Top 3 question, but what would be your advice regarding if there is a substantial difference in size between me and the other guy? I’m pretty much “average” in length and girth (6×5.5) and my wife and I had our fun in our single days and we’re open with each other so I know she’s had bigger and I am turned on by it.
February 7, 2014 at 2:35 PM
This is very common, I talk to a lot of men who get turned on and love watching their wife get fucked and pleased before their eyes from another man. This is a real thing, and as I’ve learned not out of the ordinary, it’s far and away opposite of the jealous man, but talk about the most personal and hottest porn you get to watch live. Many men said they had no idea just how amazing and hot his wife was until he got to watch her and her body approach orgasm… I have heard however, this is an addictive activity for the wife, and it’s not really the size that’s addicting but the whore-ish, naughty idea of getting railed in front of her man…
February 7, 2014 at 5:54 PM
I agree with Jenny, the bigger size is a plus for her but what really makes it’s it hot is that it’s taboo. She gets to be the dirty girl that we’re all told not to be. When you’re watching her get fucked its probably going to look different then when you’re fucking her and you might think that he is better in bed but its not really his size or skill but rather the act itself. Just try not to think of it as your dick vs his dick but rather just helping her have an amazing time. And even if he is a lot bigger than you, don’t worry after a day she’ll be good as new ;-)