Hi Jenny, just wanted to say what a great website youre running here. I can say for sure that a lot of men out there really appreciate what you do. A little about myself, Im a 20 year old student. I’ve had 2 sexual partners. Both are ex-gfs. The first gf was older and much more experienced than me. The sex was…well, bad. i had no confidence and frequently ejaculated prematurely or couldnt get it up. often times she would just give up and make me go down on her. my second gf was younger and had no prior sexual experience and after a couple months we got better at it although i could never make her cum. as she hadnt seen any others she assured me it was big. since we broke up ive had very little sexual activity however one girl who saw it also assured me after i asked for her honest opinion that it was probably just about average. i was also with another woman but couldnt perform. i was nervous and it just wouldnt respond so she made me leave. im just hoping for your honest opinion, please dont hold back i need to know the truth after getting contradicting opinions so i can accept it (good or bad) and move on
Okay sweety first things first, when it comes to sex, chill out! It sounds like you are putting way to much stress, thought, worry into it. Sex is suppose to be fun, flirty, erotic, sensual, and relaxing. Free your mind, follow your intuitions and just fuck. Not only will you not be able to perform, but any woman will be able to sense your sexual anxiety. Sex is amazing, sex is wonderful, but it’s not really life changing, and it’s not something that you should be losing sleep over let alone unsatisified partners. As I tell all my guys big and small, size is only a portion of what matters! It really is how you use it, how you communicate, how you connect, and how you finish out. Confidence is everything, and going in knowing you are going to make her scream to the heavens can make all the difference. As for the premature issue, in most cases, since you’ve only screwed a few times, you need to drain the pipes baby! That could mean before you go out, and maybe once in the bathroom before things get hot and heavy. Foreplay, making out can be hotter than the act of sex itself, and never helps for longevity! (popping one off can also calm those freaked out nerves)LET ME RATE THAT SEXY COCK OF YOURS!
I can keep it private or post it up on my blog for all those horny ladies to see!
CLICK HERE TO SUBMIT!
CLICK HERE TO SUBMIT!
or you can email me: erotic.curiosity69@gmail.com
November 2, 2012 at 12:01 PM
shit man if i was you i would walk around with my pants down half the time, be confident ive learned that over time hell im 29 and dont have the biggest dick in the world but the confidence i have with what i got the girls love it, i tell the all the time i mite touch bottom but i will strech out the edges. just relax man youll find a girl that will like you for you and size doesnt matter then brother.
November 2, 2012 at 12:09 PM
relax bu its all about confidence girls respond to that alot more then a guy with a big dick, i dont that the biggest dick but i have confidence and girls love that, i tell them all the time i mite not touch bottom but ill strech out the edges, you find a girl one day that will like you for you and the dick size wont matter and thats the girl you want. good luck brother
November 3, 2012 at 3:22 PM
Well dude, you have kind of a small and unimpressive dick. That being said, spend a little less time studying your own anatomy and study the female anatomy instead. Read about massage, and how to use your hands to please a woman, with particular attention to the g-spot and clitoris. you need to be confident that you can please her fully and completely before you even take your pants off. You want her to say, “Wow, that was amazing” before you even reach the main event, because by then it’s not gonna matter what you are packing, because she will want it so bad that size and shape won’t hardly matter, as long as it goes in, she’ll fuck it. Although it might be a good idea to warn her long beforehand you aren’t totally confident in your cock, communication is a really good thing.
When it comes to actual performance and keeping it up though, I have a few suggestions. You may want to try doing a regimen of kegels every day. Which if you didn’t know, a kegel is flexing your pelvic floor. The dick itself is more or less a sack of blood vessels, if you follow your dick back, behind your balls though, there are muscles back there. If you flex like as if to stop your pee you can feel them move. If you are hard your dick itself will flex and feel rock hard. These are responsible for keeping you hard, and preventing prematurity. Sex muscles if you will. To work these muscles and build up strength, try starting and stopping when a few times when you pee, as well as spending a few minutes daily doing a routine of flexing it, alternate between quicker on and off flexing, and trying to hold the flex for up to a minute or more. You don’t even need to take your pants off so you can do this anywhere anytime.
The second thing you should be doing is jerking off. You have to be ejaculating several times a week (although i recommend daily) to maintain stamina. when you keep it in for more than 3 days all your sperm dies and grows old, and naturally your body wants to get rid of it right away. Lets kick it up a notch though, why just masturbate, when you can super masturbate? I want you to practice whats called “peaking”. When you jerk off which you should do all the time, try to last for a good 15-30 minutes. If at anytime you feel you are about to ejaculate, STOP and reduce intensity. Just flex your pelvic floor and focus on maintaining your erection. This is a peak. relax a bit while still keeping yourself hard, then start going again until you reach another peak, STOP/flex… and so on. Of course eventually you will get to the point of no return and cum. But the idea is that you will work to get to that point where you cum on your own terms.
I did this stuff, and now when I fuck a girl, instead of thinking, “I hope I can make this happen” like i used too, I think “I hope she is ready to have a fucking orgasm”.
Some things to watch out for though are masturbating to hard, which can kill your sensitivity (happened to me). Also after a while your stamina may get to the point where sex lasts hours, which is better, far better, than minutes, but has it’s own problems ;) Also try to avoid being intoxicated for sex, it can really ruin things for many reasons.
So 3 things, be able to please her without using taking your pants off, do kegels for stamina, and start peaking. It may take a few tries in bed to find the groove but you will be a rockstar in no time.
Use lube
-Zed
December 19, 2012 at 10:38 PM
tiny cock, probably won’t please many girls but find the right person who will love you for who you are
January 21, 2013 at 12:46 AM
Wow! Harsh words from Natasha! I joke, I joke! Thanks for the feedback. I really appreciate it aswel as your direct approach. I guess your probably right, I just have to be patient. From your own perspective, would you date or sleep with a guy if you knew he was hung like that? I mean would you give him a chance? Or would you know how other girls might react too?