You’ve really got three things going on here that needs to be separated out to comment on. Lets start with your penis size and whether its good enough? If you’ve measured your own cock (a great start by the way!!) five inches is only a half inch below average. When I first read your comment I wasn’t sure why you were so worried!! No, its not big and lady splitting like cocks on the internet, but most pussies aren’t worried about that anyway! ESPECIALLY if you have all of the skills you’ve cultivated, and the desire to make women go wild like you do! So then I looked at your pic. I would NEVER clock you in at five inches with this pic, so I had to do a double take to make sure I was seeing right. First, your head is covered. It doesn’t actually change the length of your penis, but it does generally give the allusion of an additional inch. So that would mean your shaft is even shorter. I’d say two to three inches max! The thing is, it doesn’t really look like you are fully hard. I think if you were fully erect, you would look longer, closer to your actual five inches, and not tiny like I see here. I wonder if you’re so worried about being small and prefer extenders so much that it affected the way you took this picture so it reflected your belief that you are undersized!! Even with this picture, you have a nice girth. Oooh! A NICE girth, so at five inches, you should be doing fine without an extender. Not really anything to worry about! So do I think you NEED to use an extender? I would say by this PIC, it depends on the pussy. A shorter shallower pussy will be in heaven without one. I would say by this PIC and your measurements, actually probably not. Most pussy’s will purr under your expert skills!
That said, if the question is SHOULD you use an extender, I might say a different thing. The way you describe it sounds like it really gives you confidence, and trust me, nothing gets a woman dripping like a confident man (not overconfident, but confidant). Because you are both confident and concerned, you take extra time to make sure you know how to make a woman’s body sing to tune. Women LOVE that and it might not happen if you didn’t use it. In addition, it sounds like you have experience with women that they REALLY enjoy the way you use an extender. So if it works, why not keep with it…especially given the fact that it helps you maintain your erection. Maybe all guys should use one, regardless of length, for that very reason!!
That said, women don’t like to hurt a guy’s feelings, and if he is very enthusiastic about something, they might pretend it’s more enjoyable than it is. A lot of women liked to be gently stretched out by a thick fat long cock, but that doesn’t mean that all women do. Also, If they want to fuck something plastic, they’d stay home and use their dildo!!! So REALLY pay attention to the signs she and her pussy are giving you to make sure she’s really having a good time when it comes to the sleeve.
And whether the cock or extender will scare her off more…or make her hotter first…REALLY depends on her comfort level. So if she isn’t use to trying new things, the cock may be the way to go, and afterwards you can casually mention that you like to spice things up and you’d love to try it the next time. If she likes adventures, it might be something she hasn’t tried before and she’ll jump on the train the first time. The key is to get a feel BEFORE deciding which way to go!
The position I picked out for you, is for you and your extender. I like to call it the pan reverse fuck. The nice thing about extenders is that they can allow certain positions that would otherwise be reserved only for longer cocks!
This is for adventurous ladies only, and best for women you’ve fucked before! Have me straddle a chair and then finger me into ecstasy while kissing and caressing my back, shoulders and tits! Slip on that extender, lean me slightly forward and rub it gently all around my HOT, hungry pussy entrance. When you see that its ready for some magic, climb up, gripping my hips in your knees, and slip your cock into me. With expert balance, slowly being to thrust into me while I grip the chair, and then bring the magic all the way home!!
Interested in what I honestly think about that throbbing cock of yours?
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August 4, 2013 at 4:44 PM
Thank you for sharing your professional insight & suggestions, Lady Jenny. I’ll incorporate them into my training to become the best lover I can and transcend my potential to become a better man.
Background info for viewers: 3 years ago I was in an accident and got a nerve-related injury in my back. I lost all feeling in my penis for over a year. For a long time I had a mental block in my mind that prevented me from becoming intimate with others. Now I am fully functional but I still need to build up sexual confidence.
I have many unopened unused cock extender sleeves with bumps and ticklers, makes the ladies go wild, and the suction means I never loose my erection unless I take it off.
Ideally, before penetration, I love exploring the lush landscape of her mind, then enjoy sharing next 45 minutes exploring her body without penetration (oral, fingering, all-body massage with edible oil, etc) by then she is begging me to penetrate her, but sometimes I feel that my natural equipment can be augmented with technology to make the experience different for her.
The extensions I use transfer body heat and conform over my equipment.
I’ve never had anyone turn me down pre-sex because of my size but in the back of my mind I know I am half an inch below average. I think anyone who would walk out on me because of the size of my equipment without first finding out how well I use it, isn’t someone worth experiencing the artful skills I am developing in the first place.
Thanks again!
August 4, 2013 at 4:55 PM
I forgot to add that your psychoanalysis in the first paragraph is quite interesting. I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the things you highlighted subconsciously affected how I took the pictures and how I present myself. I’ll be sure to explore this introspectively.
I can take great solace in having nice girth, some women pick up on it and compliment me accordingly :)
August 4, 2013 at 10:32 PM
Your length is a little short but you look like you have good girth plus you get bonus points for wearing toys! ;-)
August 5, 2013 at 3:17 PM
Thank you for your interpretation of the evidence, Lady Stephanie. In another timeline I’m sure my extensive collection of classic, rare, and high-end toys become fast friends with your kitty! ;-)